By GEGAC’s Family Violence Support and Outreach Team
The month of May is Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Month.
Here at GEGAC we’re using this occasion to raise awareness of the devastating impacts family violence has in our community.
But we also want to shine a bright light on the support that is available locally for people experiencing family violence, and to celebrate the incredible people doing powerful work to provide that support.
Family violence is a deeply rooted issue that affects many families across Australia.
But for Aboriginal people, the impact is compounded by the historical and ongoing effects of colonisation.
Colonisation imposed foreign systems and values that disrupted traditional ways of life, leading to various forms of violence and trauma.
Understanding this history is crucial for addressing the ongoing effects and working towards healing and reconciliation.
The cycles of violence we see today are often a direct consequence of the disruption of our traditional ways of life, the forced removal of children, and the breakdown of cultural and community structures.
These historical injustices have left many of our people struggling with identity, disconnection from culture, and a lack of trust in mainstream services and authorities.
Working within this community, we witness firsthand the resilience and strength of our people in facing these challenges.
However, breaking the cycle of violence requires more than just individual effort; it demands a collective approach that is culturally sensitive and community driven.
We need to create safe spaces where our people can heal, reconnect with their culture, and rebuild their lives.
Our approach should be holistic, addressing not only the immediate safety concerns but also the underlying issues such as mental health, substance abuse, and economic disadvantage.
It is crucial that we work in partnership with community leaders and organisations to develop and implement strategies that are grounded in our cultural values and practices.
Education and awareness are also key components in breaking the cycle of violence.
We must educate our young people about healthy relationships, respect, and the importance of cultural identity.
By empowering the next generation with knowledge and pride in their heritage, we can foster a future where family violence is no longer a part of our story.
While the challenges are significant, I believe that with a united and culturally informed approach, we can make meaningful progress in addressing family violence within the communities.
Let us continue to support each other, advocate for systemic change, and honour the strength and resilience of our people.
If this impacts or triggers you in any way, please reach out for support.
You can call GEGAC’s Family Violence Outreach and Support Team – fully private and confidential – on 03 5150 0700 or freecall 1800 844 945.
Here are some resources and people ready to help you through this journey.
Signs of Abuse
Understanding the signs of abuse can help in identifying victims and providing timely support. Some common indicators include:
- Physical Injuries: Unexplained bruises, cuts, or injuries.
- Emotional Distress: Anxiety, depression, or sudden changes in behavior.
- Isolation: Withdrawal from friends, family, and social activities.
- Control: One partner exerting excessive control over the other’s actions, finances, or social interactions.
How to Support Victims
Supporting victims of DFV requires sensitivity and understanding. Here are some ways to help:
- Listen and Believe: Offer a non-judgmental ear and believe their experiences.
- Provide Resources: Share information about local shelters, hotlines, and support services.
- Encourage Professional Help: Suggest counselling or legal assistance.
- Safety Planning: Help them develop a plan to leave safely if necessary.
Statistics on Domestic and Family Violence in Australia
- Prevalence: An estimated 8 million Australians (41%) have experienced violence (physical and/or sexual) since the age of 15 1.
- Emotional Abuse: About 3.6 million Australian adults (19% of the population) have experienced emotional abuse by a partner since the age of 15 2.
- Witnessing Violence: Approximately 12% (2.2 million) of Australians witnessed partner violence against their mothers during childhood 3.
Support Phone Numbers
1800 RESPECT
1800 737 732: Confidential 24/7 counselling for people impacted by family violence.
SAFE STEPS
1800 015 188: 24/7 family violence response and online at safesteps.org.au
THE ORANGE DOOR
1800 512 358: (Mon-Fri, 9 – 5) Help for people experiencing family violence.
BROTHER TO BROTHER
1800 435 799: Crisis line staffed by Aboriginal men for Aboriginal men who need someone to yarn to about any worries, including family violence, parenting, drug and alcohol issues or other reasons.
13 YARN
13 92 76: Confidential 24/7 crisis support line run by and for First Nations people.
YARNING SAFE ‘N’ STRONG
1800 959 563: Confidential 24/7 mental health support line for Aboriginal people.